Four Equations Of Marriage That Will Turn Your Home To A Semi-Heaven.

Marriage is a good thing; it is an adventure that many young people crave to experience. It is a journey that has divergent views.  And the mysterious part of it is that each school of thoughts has some proofs to show for it.
When you meet a man who had a frustrated marriage, he will develop a theology around his experience,  hence, mentors the upcoming generation on it. He may go as far as citing scriptures just to prove their points.
Hmmmmmn....do you know that the bible is a prophetic book; by implication, you can make it say whatever you wish. This is why scriptural interpretations must be inspired by the author  (i.e THE HOLY SPIRIT).

To others, it is a adventure that is heaven on earth, you hear persons like Bishop David Oyedepo says "I have a crises free home". Such statements have a way it excites and motivates upcoming ones.
  Or is it the like of Papa Enoch Adejare Adeboye who is practically celebrating 53 years wedding anniversary today?
One thing that is common to both families is that they started in a very humble way. For instance, Bishop David Oyedepo left his job and went into full time ministry- which was very young then.  While his wife regularly submits her salary to him every month. 
Furthermore,  the story of Papa Adeboye is one that will take several authors to compile, because it is full of intriguing and interesting features. However,  a comprehensive video has been done to make you have a first hand information on his rough beginning. A man who left a promising job to a pulpit ministry which could barely pay the pastors in the ministry,  yet both of them stayed. I think you need to watch that video as you will discover how tough their lives were. At some point,  mama G O was full of anxiety,  but she took solace in the fact that it is God who is leading them, hence, this awareness imbued confidence into her.
According to Papa G O, marriage is mathematics,  if you don't know the formula,  then  you cannot get the right answer.
He also said "I told my children that why I have remained married for 47 years is because I understand the mathematics of marriage. Mathematics is a science of living". He said this in his 47th year wedding anniversary. 
He came up with four equations that makes marriage work and we will deal with them in this article. Please read on!
Getting married to the person that is right for you is an asset of inestimable value. Pastor Paul Adefarasin said, 
my life go for don spoil bad bad if to say i no marry this woman
Meaning:  His life would have being nothing to write home about if he had  not married his wife-Ifeanyi.
Still addressing similar issues, Pastor David Ibiyeomie of salvation ministries, said that getting married to the right person is an asset indeed.
This clearly shows that ones destiny is predicated upon a successful marriage.  Funny enough, happy marriage is not a prayer point but a deliberate action by the man and woman. Notwithstanding,  you will need God's grace at every point on the journey,  but to leave ones marital success entirely in the hand of God is an act of irresponsibility!
The first equation of marriage is predicated upon the popular parlance, "love is blind". Well, scripturally love covers a multitude of sin (Proverbs 10:12).
Equation two says that marriage has an inherent potentials and anointing to open the blind eyes.  According to scriptures, Jacob eyes were opened when he discovered that the person he got married to was not his desired wife (Genesis 29:16-25).
Hence, when you apply any of the methods of solving simultaneous equations, you will discover that the character of any woman is hidden during courtship, hence you must sustain enough flexibility to accommodate her.
The third equation is a comic one which say, "Angels don't eat jollof rice". Scripturally speaking,  Angels are perfect beings and they do not eat food (Judges 6:11-21). You may not understand this equation fully until you go to the next equation. 
The equation four says, "Angels do not marry". Matthew 22:30 clearly stated this.
By implication, if you must marry, then you must know that your wife is not an angel because she eats jollof rice (that is, food). Thus, don't expect her to be perfect. 
Furthermore,  one of the things to do as a man is to have a bank where you have deposited enough forgiveness.  And make sure that you withdraw more than what you need daily, because,  it does nothing get spoilt! 

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