THE YOUNG PEOPLE'S BLOG

The outset of any relationship is a very exciting one, especially when he or she has all or most of the attributes that you are looking for. And these attributes vary from person to person due to individual taste. However, any and every relationship is heading for a crash if a singular point is not factored into the relationship or marriage. It is called "transition to phase two of your relationship and marriage".  Therefore, if there's phase two, it also mean that there's phase one. Hence, what is phase one about? How do I know which phase I am? Please follow me as I define them appropriately. Moreso, the phase one of every love relationship is almost automatic. In other words, you don't need to really do anything for it to begin. This phase involves the likeness, strong emotional feelings, the joy, ecstacy, and other nice feelings that comes as a result of finding someone who you truly love. It is at this phase that you sincerely long to hold him/her...

The cleric started by sending condolence message to the aggrieved parents, brothers and sisters who lost their lives in the black tuesday Lekki massacre. The cleric stated that it is quite unfortunate that as at 2015, there were warnings from some clerics (him inclusive) that if what was obtainable then was hell, then something far worse than that is on its way. Unfortunately many didn't listen. VIDEO LINK Some went as far as prophesying that there is a messiah who will wipe the tears from the eyes of every Nigerians. Some started that he has zero tolerance for corruption; one who is poor to a point that he has no money to buy nomination form nor had any house to call his own. Thus, he was supported by the elite and some others. He stated categorically that one can see vividly today that the reverse is actually is what is palpable in the country today. The cleric went further to say that he felt bad after watching the videos of the Lekki Massacre: how lives ...

In ancient times, traditionalists and other fetish practices are kept away from social media or public eyes. This means, they are often done in the secret without no one seeing them. However, anyone who wishes to consult them will have to go through the bush to do so. On the contrary is the practice of today. Many of them are now using laptops, riding good cars, dressing in gorgeous attires and even getting married. While surfing through the internet, i came across a young woman who claimed to be a river goddess (also called  "OGBANJE" ). Her name is " Adaeze Gift Okolie" . Few months ago, she came on social media to tell the world that she was once a Christian but she has denounced her faith due to her personal reasons.  More so, she came up again and made some deep confession of her practices. According to her, what constitutes a source of income for spiritual people is not because they are  Pastors  or " Dibia " (that is traditionalist),...

Sometimes,  life can throw puzzles at us that are difficult to decode or decipher. It can come in the form of challenges in any or all of your tripartite nature (body, soul and spirit). At this time, you may not be able to grapple with the next step of action,  hence,  you must be well equip to know how to go about it. Life in her entirety is a battle, challenges are your exams and your approach to them is what determines the outcomes.  Let me quickly say here that, one shouldn't assume that he is prepared against trying times until there is a deliberate work on the part of the recipient.  Living with assumption is playing without knowing. For instance,  you don't assume to be sound in mathematics  until you have been able to prove it in an exam. In the same vein, you don't assume to pass the exam until you are pretty sure that you have done enough underground work on it. We live in a world where people live their lives to chance, especiall...

Pastor Enoch Adejare Adeboye is the General Overseer of the redeemed christian church of God (RCCG). He got married on the 8th of September, 1967. As a way to celebrate the clerics, social media has been flooded with different activities since the early hours of today. Several blog post, facebook messages and so on, have occupied the airwaves since the dawn of the day. One of the most interesting part of this celebration is the love note from Pastor Mrs Foluke Adeboye (that is, his wife). She took to her social media handle and expressed her joy for their marital journey. According to her, these fifty three years have been years of joy, love, and blessings. Thus, every moment with Pastor Enoch Adeboye seems like they just fell in love afresh. She went further to pray for others who are believing God for a blissful home. Her very words are quoted below: "It's been 53 years of Joy, Love, Blessings and every moment with  @pastoreaadeboyeofficial still feels like we just fell ...

Marriage is a good thing; it is an adventure that many young people crave to experience. It is a journey that has divergent views.  And the mysterious part of it is that each school of thoughts has some proofs to show for it. When you meet a man who had a frustrated marriage, he will develop a theology around his experience,  hence, mentors the upcoming generation on it. He may go as far as citing scriptures just to prove their points. Hmmmmmn....do you know that the bible is a prophetic book; by implication, you can make it say whatever you wish. This is why scriptural interpretations must be inspired by the author  (i.e THE HOLY SPIRIT). To others, it is a adventure that is heaven on earth, you hear persons like Bishop David Oyedepo says "I have a crises free home" . Such statements have a way it excites and motivates upcoming ones.   Or is it the like of Papa Enoch Adejare Adeboye who is practically celebrating  53 years wedding anniversary today?...

The killings in Southern Kaduna is something to lament over. It calls for a rethink and an evaluation.  In. a country where there is no war, yet the number of deaths that has been recorded since the year began is alarming.  The big question one should ask himself is "are these terrorists richer or stronger than the entirety of the military government?". However, these persons live in a community;  they have siblings and family members.  Personally,  I sense a hidden agenda somewhere. I am not a person who is drawn to the mass media but this recent scenario has drawn my attention seriously. The untold killings in the north has never been addressed pragmatically by the governors concerned.  This is more unlike a tribal or a religious war. Recently,  a Pastor by the name Dr Paul Enenche gave an insightful message on this current phenomenon. He lamented that though Nigerians constitute best brains in different nations of the world, in that, one out of ev...

Our society today is so obsessed with titles, especially the third world nations. To some, it is an accurate measure  of their true worth. Hence, there is the drive to obtain more certification in other to amass titles of all sorts.  More so, there are persons that will never answer you because you never addressed them with their appropriate titles. However, Bishop David Oyedepo made a clear difference between the two. And I think the difference is good to know and best if it is applied.  While browsing through the internet, I came across one of Bishop David Oyedepo's sermons,  where he differentiated these two concepts.  Video link Bishop David Oyedepo  is the president of the Living Faith Church Worldwide, also known as Winners Chapel. He is one of those preachers whose name is worth associating with. He started that the values that a man generates is what enhances his worth, title notwithstanding.  In other words, it is not y...

 Diezani Alison-Madueke is the former minister if petroleum. While addressing the issues that emerge from fatherless homes stated clearly that it is a vicious cycle.  In the sense that an irreposible young man will becomean irresponsible father.  You can  Click here  to access the video. Notwithstanding, here is a transcript of it: "The ones that has swags. The yahoo yahoo boys as my son will say, are the role models  they are looking up to today. These are the ones who reinforce negative societal behaviors and values. This is a travesty of an unfolding tragedy for us. Why have I spent the time talking on fatherless homes and the impact that it has on our children? Well, the truth of the matter, is that an irresponsible boy tends to become an irresponsible man, and it is therefore a vicious cycle.  If you plant cocoyam, you cannot harvest plantain. It affects not only our homes and culture, our cultural and traditional values and structures...

Pastor  Enenche is the founder of the Dynamis International Gospel Church with her headquarter in Abuja. Recently, the clergy gave a redefinition to the concept of Christianity. In his two minutes video, he asked salient questions that we must profer answers to if our journey as Christians will be a fruitful one. To save the stress of downloading the video, I did the transcription of it below : "What is the Essence Of Christianity? What is Christianity all about? What is the use of going to church? What is the product of going to church? There are many in church today, for many reasons. There are many today in church, merely for religious activity. That is an activity- I belong to a church, my church, my pastor,just normal activity. There are those in church today for maybe as a part of social activity as well.  And there are those in church, in search of miracle, the problems of life being too much. So let me go and let God help me. So you will see ver...

Pastor Joseph Adelakun (formerly Amusa Adelakun) was born on the 12th of June, 1949 into a Muslim family in Oyo state, Nigeria. His father was an devoted Muslim who married five wives and gave birth to sixteen children. The mother of Amusa Adelakun was the fourth wife and he was the only son that the mother gave birth to. Though he is from a large family, his father was a highly disciplined and also a wealthy man. Pastor Adelakun always go out to hawk foodstuffs at a very young age. This was not because of poverty but as a way of training. Moreover, he was a very intelligent young boy. Moreso, life became very tough for him and the family at large when his father died on the 7th of August, 1964. He was barely fifteen years old then. Hence, he couldn't continue his education due to financial hardship. Then he was told to do an apprenticeship in Kareem Electrical Engineering Service. He did his apprenticeship for two years (that is 1966-1968). Though he was from a very disciplined ho...

Yesterday is in the tomb (that is, it cannot come back or be changed), today is in your hand (that is, you can still do something about it) while tomorrow is in the womb (that is, your current happenings can influence it). Everyone has a past, either positive or negative. If it is a negative past, it can hinder your present living. Hence, making you recycle regrets, pains and sorrows. Most times,  we just wish we can turn back the hand of time and do the needful, but it can't be done. Persons who had a negative past have every tendency to be drawn to them seeing that they have gotten some level of enlightenment now. But let me assure you that the best thing to do your past is to bury it and I will give your some proven steps in this article. If you don't bury your past and let it remain dead, soon your past will bury both your today and tomorrow. Life is a journey with a daily allocation of burdens. You need to free your backs each day  so as to be able to shoulder...

 The Catholic Reverend sister in the above picture was reported to have left the convent in a bid to marry the love of her life. The pictures below shows her traditional marriage. By deduction, the husband is a police officer as you can see below. Truthfully speaking, her decision to leave the convent is quite commendable. In the sense that, it is better to be married than burn in lust. Being a celibate (that is one who deliberately decides not to marry) or a eununch is a call by God. When one is called to be a Kingdom Eunuch, the grace to stay as such will be provided. One should never venture into sacred or Divine office without the grace to stand there. It is for this singular reason that we have fake ministers and ministries everywhere. Furthermore, sincerity is the key to going far in life. This Reverend sister was very sincere with herself. She didn't allow others with the call to deceived her. She knew that though we are doing ...

The rate with which hackers hack people's Facebook account is quite alarming. The way this is done is still a mystery to many. Moreso, the founder of Google has not relented in her effort to bring these menance to the bearest minimum. Month after months, there is a ban on some malicious apps. But in this article we will focus on the recent ban. One acid test to prove that an app has been banned by Google is the unavailable of such app from Google play store. At that point in time, it is advisable to delete such apps as it is no longer safe or secure for use. Furthermore, another 25 apps has been banned recently. These apps have malicious codes that waits to collect your personal information. This was the report given by Evina, the founder of French Cyber-security company) According to him, these apps are often clustered with adverts of different kinds, in an attempt to steal your vital information. He asserted that once these apps are installed, it can open ...